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I previously posted this one on my private network on Facebook, but I decided to share it on my blog as well to help others.

How do you start working from home as an online worker in the Philippines?

Here are 5 basic steps to get started:

  1. Know your skills
  2. Have a decent computer and wired internet connection
  3. Set up your payment method
  4. Sign up for an account on freelancer websites
  5. Take initiative!
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1. Know your skills

  • Assess your strengths. What skills do you have? What is your job experience?
  • Some in-demand skills in the freelancing world are writing/editing, graphic design, web development, web design, accounting, marketing, translation, data entry, English teaching, and many more.
  • To give you an idea, check out the categories available on OnlineJobsPH. 

2. Have a decent computer and wired internet connection

  • I assure you, while you can get started working online with a cellphone, you can only do so much. Invest in a laptop or desktop—it's the best investment you can do for yourself as an online worker. As for the specs, it depends on what type of job you do.
  • Have a wired internet connection, not a pocket WiFi. Use a pocket WiFi as backup, but not as your primary internet source.


3. Set up your payment method

  • Very important so that you can get paid.
  • Your popular options are PayPal, Transferwise, or Payoneer (the links for Transferwise and Payoneer have referral links on them; you have the option not to use the referral links)
  • Do a simple Google search to figure out how to set up an account for each.
  • Important tip: Your registered name on all three payment platforms above should be the same as the name you use on your linked bank account. 

4. Sign up for an account on freelancer websites

  • My personal favorite is OnlineJobs.ph because they don't take a cut from your earnings, unlike UpWork.
  • List of other freelancer sites: List of Freelance Websites to Work From Home and Earn Online

5. Very important: Take initiative!

  • It's not as easy as asking your freelancer friends for a job. If we do know that there are job openings in our network, we'd gladly help you, but don't be too reliant on referrals.
  • It's the same as applying for jobs in the real world: You browse through available jobs on freelancer sites, you apply to them, you get hired—you know how it works.
  • Learn how to search on Google! Many of the questions you may have are already there.
  • If you're not confident, invest in trainings like VABootcamp or join Facebook Groups like FreeLancers In the Philippines (FLIP) - by Jason Dulay
  • And as much as we can help you, the best you can do is help yourself. That's the key to freelancing: You need to learn to be INDEPENDENT and RESOURCEFUL 

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You can also check out my other articles here about working from home:

  • How I Became a Work-at-Home Mom (WAHM) - Recommended! Provides you with all the steps I did to start working from home
  • 5 Things to Consider Before Deciding to Become a Work-at-Home Mom (WAHM)
  • 5 Time Management Tips for Work-at-Home Moms
  • Turn Even the Smallest Corner Into a Spacious Home Office
August 18, 2020 No comments

 



Potty training—one of the many things I dreaded when I became a mother, knowing how messy and challenging it is. 

To my surprise, however, our daughter was fully potty-trained when she was 2 years old and 6 months! Here's how we did it:



When did we start potty-training?

A week after our daughter turned 2, I started to introduce her to the potty.

However, we didn't push through with the "full-blown" potty training until she was 2 years and 6 months old.


What potties did we use?

We had the same exact potty like the photo below, yet the magical flushing sound didn't work because it was a hand-me-down from my sister.



We also have a cushioned potty seat like the one below so that we can provide two options for our daughter to choose. I use the positive discipline method of providing limited choices for our toddler.



Most of the time, in the beginning, she'd choose the pink potty chair over the cushioned potty seat. But as of this writing, she has no problem using both.


Assessing our toddler's readiness for potty training

We took things slowly. I let her pee in her potty every morning, but the rest of the day, she was in diapers.

She still couldn't pull down her pants, and in my instinct, I felt that she wasn't ready yet.

So I didn't force her.

We continued this routine for nearly six months before I felt that she was ready for a more "intensive" potty training session.

Of course, it also helped that she sees how I pee.


How did I know our toddler was ready for potty training?

In all honesty, I didn't—I just followed my instincts. 

But I did notice the following signs for the past few months before she turned 2 years old, and the months that followed before she turned 2 years and 6 months:

  • She had fewer wet diapers at night.
  • She stays dry for around 2 hours during the day.
  • She shows interest in my toilet "rituals," making comments like, "Mommy remove panty!" or "Mommy wiwi!" or "Mommy pooping!"
  • She actually tells me when she's peeing or pooping herself, and then asks me to change her diapers

Our potty training method

Every child is different, so there really is no cookie-cutter approach when it comes to potty training. 

But perhaps to help you and give you an idea, here's how we did it:


1. Gradually introducing her to the potty

Take time for training. Potty training is a huge milestone for a child, so it's best to introduce it gradually.

The gradual introduction included:

  • Letting her know what a potty is and how it is used
  • Showing her how I pee
  • Letting her use her own potty at least once a day
  • Teaching her how to undress herself
  • Reading her a book about potty training. We used Caroline Jayne Church's Potty Time!



2. Letting her know in advance that she will be wearing underwear 

I find it respectful to let her know in advance what to expect. For example:

"K, this morning, you won't be wearing diapers. You will be wearing panties instead. This means you can't pee in your panty. And then what do we do when you need to pee?"

And then she will answer, "Go potty!"


3. Gradually "weaning off" from diapers

On the first day, I let her wear panties for the whole morning, and then diapers in the afternoon and at night.

I opted to do this so as to make the transition more bearable for her.

Expect a lot of mess, but be patient—the accidents will lessen as she learns that she can no longer use her diapers.

Image by PublicDomainPictures from Pixabay

On the second day, I let her wear panties the whole morning, plus 2 hours in the afternoon.

On the third, fourth, and fifth day, I increased hours of wearing panties in 2-hour increments. At night, I still let her wear diapers.

This went on for about seven days, until she surprised me that she could stay dry on her panties for longer and then promptly peed on the potty when she needed to go!


4. Making up our own "potty song"

I tried to make potty training fun and a bonding experience for both of us.

So I made up a simple song that we sing whenever she goes potty—simple enough so that our toddler could sing it with me!

Ours was like this (the tune, I made it up as well):


Wiwi, wiwi, wiwi baby girl 
(exchange with poopoo if she does #2)
Potty, potty, potty baby girl
Ang among baby nag wiwi sa potty! 
(Translates to: "Our baby is peeing in her potty!")


5. Set routine; set alarms

This was something I learned from an online mom group: setting an alarm so that I myself won't forget!

My method was that I set an alarm every 2 hours (the maximum time that I observed she can stay dry), and the ringtone was a recording of me saying:

"K, wiwi or poopoo potty please!"

By the fourth or fifth day, our daughter was able to anticipate this and it became part of our routine—by then, I stopped using the alarm.

She was also able to pee regularly as needed on the seventh day and beyond!

It's important to set a routine when potty training. How you do yours is all up to you and your toddler.

6. Night-time potty training

In all honesty, I wasn't confident enough to let her wear panties when she's asleep. 

I let her wear pull-up diapers for around three or five months after she was fully potty-trained (daytime).

However, all throughout that duration, K stayed dry! 

The only times when she would accidentally pee while sleeping was when she overslept after staying up so late, overtired.

I realized that K was also potty-trained at night at the same time she was potty-trained during daytime—I just didn't trust her enough, but here we are!


Things we did NOT do:

  • Sticker chart or rewards—Verbal encouragement and our sing-along during potty time were enough for our toddler to be happy.
  • Regular waking up at night for night-time potty training—As I mentioned, we just let her sleep through the night in her pull-up diapers, with the pink potty chair inside our room. But then, she stayed dry overnight nearly all the time!

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And that's about it—how our toddler was potty-trained at 2 years and 6 months old! :)

Again, every child is different. Some even don't reach this milestone until they're around 3 or 4. Don't worry! Children will learn in their own time.
August 12, 2020 No comments

 



Potty training is a major milestone but often considered as one of the most challenging parts of early parenting.

I have read countless online comments from moms—both first-time parents and veteran ones—about the long and difficult process of potty training.

There's also the years-long challenge of overcoming bedwetting.

However, every kid is different. Some take a lot of time to potty train, while others seem to be a natural at it.

If you're in the trenches of potty training, here are some tips for stress-free potty training:


1. Wait and let your child's readiness lead

A child's ability to be potty trained is highly dependent on his/her readiness, both on the cognitive and physical level.

Parenting experts say that while it's considered developmentally "appropriate" to expect 18- to 24-month-olds to be potty trained, some children are not ready yet until they are 3 or 4 years old.

And if you have a boy, it's more expected that they get ready later than girls do.

So if it seems that your toddler isn't interested in potty training yet, the best course of action is to wait and let your child's readiness lead.


2. Know the signs of potty training readiness

More often than not, you may be misled by online articles and books claiming that if you use their same exact methods, you can potty-train your child in just a few days.

However, that's not always the case. If you introduce potty training prematurely, the chances of success are slim.

Knowing the signs of potty training readiness can give you a good idea whether it's the right time for your toddler to be potty trained.


Some of these are the following:

  • Able to maintain being "dry" for at least 2 hours or during nap times.
  • Can walk and/or run steadily.
  • Can pull his/her pants down and/or up.
  • Can sit down patiently in one place for 5 minutes.
  • Is curious about your bathroom habits.
  • Can become uncomfortable when his/her diapers are dirty.
  • Can follow simple instructions.
  • Can verbalize when he/she needs to go.


3. Encourage, encourage, encourage

Encouragement goes a long way when you're training your toddler—be it for potty training or many other developmental milestones.

Praise is just not enough, such as "Good job!"

Be specific in what you find delightful. For example, "Wow, you were able to pee in the potty just in time!"

And whenever there are accidents—and there will be many—stay calm and unruffled, and really mean it.

It's best not to redirect the child. You need to acknowledge his/her accident yet still encourage the toddler.

For example, "Oopsy! You peed in your underwear, and now you're upset that you're dirty. But you did a good job in letting me know that you're peeing! Let's try to pee in the potty next time!"

Or sometimes, a simple "Oh, darling. That's okay. Thank you for trying!" worked really well for us.


4. Read them books, sing them songs

I'm a huge fan of using picture books and songs to teach my toddler.

It's also a fun way to teach children and effective tools in helping them recall the lesson better.

Here are some of the books and songs/videos I used to help K during our potty training:

"Potty Time!" by Caroline Jayne Church

I love how simple and fun this book is, with its short and cute sentences that rhyme, and the "Flush me!" button.



There's also a book reading video of Potty Time! here:


Potty Training Song - Cocomelon

What parent has never heard of Cocomelon? Our toddler loves this particular video



However, when we potty trained, I made up a special potty training song for my toddler that's simple enough so that she can also sing along with me while she peed/pooped.


5. Be gentle; let go of perfection

Lastly, be gentle and kind, both to your toddler and to yourself. Let go of the vision of perfection.

Remember, if your toddler hasn't been potty-trained yet, it's highly likely that he/she isn't ready.

No one keeps a record of your parenting wins, and there surely is no competition on who the best parent is in the world.

I know it's easier said than done. But here's one thing that helped me whenever I try to teach my daughter something:

A child is a whole person from the day he/she is born. 
And as with every person, we learn at our own pace. 
Trust your child.



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In a previous post, I shared to you how our toddler was quickly potty-trained. If you'd like to know how we did it, head on to this post: How Our Toddler Was Potty-Trained at 2.6 Years Old

August 11, 2020 No comments
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My name is Kristenne, misis to Jerome and mommy to Kitty. I'm a work-at-home mom, writer, and editor. Learn more about what my blog is in the About page. If you'd like to work with me, or you have other questions and concerns, please feel free to contact me.



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